how do i send a personal message to someone?

Hey moose_adict, all you've gotta do is: if you are in the video section (watching clips and reading comments) is click on the profile button under the persons comment that you want to send a PM to. That will take you to that persons profile, from the bottom of the left margin of that page click on "Send Message", type in your message and send it.

If you are in the forum, click on the persons name to get a drop down menu, from the menu select "send message". Type in your message and send it.

You can also search for members names and send PM's by clicking on the name to go to their profile page.

That's the basics, you can also add people to your friends list if you are sending them messages frequently which becomes handy when you use "Messenger" from your control panel on the site.

Hope this helps, send me a PM if you like to test it out - I'd love to hear from you.

All the best
Aaron